Nashauna Drummond, Staff Reporter
DOES HAVING sex with your loved one become routine and mundane? Why not take a ride on the wild side by leaving a window slightly cracked, a door ajar or leave it wide open. Think of the added thrill at the thought of being literally caught with your pants down!
For some persons the thought of having sex in a public place or in a situation where they can be discovered at any moment is a turn on.
Exhibitionists revel in having sex or any sexual acts in places where they could potentially be seen by others. The feeling that they are doing something 'naughty'.
Jake Roberts* readily admits to being an exhibitionist. He's had sexual encounters at the drive-in, parked outside someone's gate and once in an empty lot with people walking by. He says he's turned on by the danger and possibility of being caught. "In a public place it's more intense. In private its more routine." noted Jake.
Judy wouldn't exactly call herself an exhibitionist but in the heat of the moment she could throw caution to the wind and get it on, even in public. Like the time she was riding cross-country in the United States on a tour bus and decided to move from her sleeping bunk (third level up) and join her pal who just happened to pull the curtain and reveal his font of pleasure for her to see.
Having flirted and had mental foreplay all day long, it was more than she could resist at midnight when she thought all but the bus driver were asleep. It was a heavenly ride and only the memory of the moment saved her from total embarrassment when she found out that one other occupant of the bus heard the entire episode!
In Jamaica though, some persons would not call themselves exhibitionists but have engaged in characteristic behaviour when the opportunity presented itself.
Damion Jackson* once had sex at the bus stop. "It was just an opportunity. The trill is less about the place and just the thought that I'm having sex. I'm a firm believer in any time any place".
That was exactly what Chad Lawerence* did when on the way from the University of the West Indies one night he had sex in the back of one of the Student Union's coaster buses.
HEAT OF THE MOMENT
Melissa Johnson* is a relatively traditional conservative person. However, in the heat of the moment she had sex on the banks of a popular tubing attraction in St. Mary. "I wasn't even thinking that people could be going down the river at any moment. When it was over and we saw the man walking down the river with his dog I tried to keep a straight face but it was pretty exciting thinking that I just did something that was very bad."
Ever noticed the dark cars parked at lookout points? The steamy windows on the Palisadoes strip, or the car that's still in the drive-in after the movie is finished? Not to mention those who have checked into the "green grass hotel" (Devon House)?
Everyone enjoys a little danger now and then. But a window or two left open during the act might be just the ingredient you need to replace the intensity in your love life.
* Names changed on request.
