Taking the bold step to tease and tantalise your man can not only be a turn on but a prelude to great sex. - Winston Sill/Freelance Photographer

Yahneake Sterling, Staff Reporter

Foreplay. This is the single most important erotic element that should prelude great sex.

But is foreplay always the man's job?

Karen:No, not at all. Women would be surprised to know that they can become aroused by turning on their partner.

Susan:Some women expect the man to always make the first move. But from my experience, taking the bold step to tease and tantalise my man, is a major turn on for me.

WHAT TURNS YOU ON?

Flair asked several men to reveal their erogenous zones.

Sam:(laughs before answering). That would be my nipples. One flick of a tongue on my nipples and my girlfriend has my attention. It is a major turn on for me.

Steve:My neck. Soft teasing kisses on my neck, especially the back of my neck, have the hairs all over my body standing up. It is a toe curling moment for me; it's almost as good as oral sex.

Hutch:I get goose pimples when my girl runs her tongue over my back, and my shoulders. When she runs her tongue along my spine, my entire body quivers.

Tom:That's no guessing game. It's oral sex for me; it's mind blowing. That's the way to get me in the groove.

Shane:My ears. When I feel her teeth nibbling on my ears, it just drives me crazy.

Roger:My navel. When her warm tongue darts into my navel, damn, it's like the world has stopped turning. It's just me and her and I'm ready to please her.

Roy:This may sound weird but my genitals are my spot. Getting there licked is orgasmic.

George:Well, I'm sort of freaky. When a woman is kissing and licking my toes, it's just the best feeling. And when her teeth comb the sole of my feet that's even better. My feet are always clean, as I do regular pedicures.

Johnny:(Hesitantly) My groin area. It's so close to the penis that when she runs her tongue in the creases on my groin, I get goose pimples and it's like I want to explode.

So ladies, now that you know the erogenous zones on your man, go ahead and start the foreplay.

Names changed on request.

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