Q: Hi doc, my son is in grade six at a primary school and he cannot read properly. He also writes like a student of a lower grade. He is a happy child and has almost everything for his comfort. Where can I take him for help before it's too late?

A: You need to take him to be tested by a psychologist, a reading specialist or a counsellor who has training in educational testing. Ask the guidance counsellor at his school where you can take him to be tested. If you cannot get the help, call us at 962-5292 so we can help you.

Q: My 14-year-old daughter is out late most nights. Whenever I talk to her, she pretends to listen then does the opposite. I work with a hospital and so many times I am on the night shift. It is only the two of us living together. What can I do?

A: You need to find somewhere that she can stay with a responsible adult or adults until you get home.

You must not allow her to be home by herself. You see, she is free to do what she wants because you are not around. Get some help as quickly as possible. You may want to ask your employers if you can work on the day shift until you are able to organise things. I am also recommending that you visit her school and find out if she has been attending regularly and doing her schoolwork.

Q: I am a parent working in The Cayman Islands and I have two children living in Jamaica. I want to know why Jamaica does not have more boarding schools so that my children can attend. Everytime I have to go to Cayman to work, I have to find a new helper or family member to look after my children. It is hard. Can the Government help?

A: I am sure all governments would want to help all parents with their children, but it is the responsibility of parents to see to the welfare of their children.

I would think that you are in another country to earn a living to help make your children's life better. You must remember, though, that some people will not take care of your children as you would. I recommend that you sit down and talk to those you leave to take care of them, making clear what your expectations are. Also, keep in touch with the school they attend, especially with the guidance counsellor. I hope you will be able to come home soon and take care of your children.

Having problems with your children? Write to:

Ask the Doc, c/o The Gleaner, 7 North Street, Kingston, fax 922-6223 or email helpline@gleanerjm.com.

Dr Orlean Brown-Earle, child psychologist and family therapist, has the solutions in The Gleaner's Positive Parenting feature on Mondays.